Not all.

I always say, “Its okay to fall, we can still get up.” whenever I have a breakdown while doing something – which actually works. Back when I was in middle school, I used to soar as high as possible, I didn’t think of whatever anyone has to say because all I keep in mind that time, “I want to go up.”


That was until I come into my senses. I started to realize I am not the center of anything nor anyone. But, I never blame myself thus I understand what happened – I just grew. Some people mistakenly believe that realizing that you made a mistake in the past means you are bad now.



    

“Never blame yourself for growing. Realizing you made a mistake at the past means you have learned from it.”




Once we fall down, it’s either we can or we can’t stand up. Not all storms has a rainbow after. Not all problems has a solution to be done. Not all sadness requires happiness. And not all things will go the way we planned it to be.




“It’s better to understand things rather than to hope endlessly.”




It’s not being hopeless. It’s not being careless. It’s not being miserable. Nor it is being carefree. It’s being real. Reality is far more than high hopes and endless wishing – we should understand that things will be how they were ought to be.


You can never stop the sun from shining until it is dark. You can never stop a star from glowing until the sky is filled with clouds. Let things happen the way it is - you can never enjoy if you keep focusing on every small details that counts, the big picture tells it all.


As much as we say that “it is okay to feel tired, you can rest” is fine, therefore “It is okay to fall, you can sit for awhile.” is also fine. — It is okay not to get up after you fall, life isn’t a race. Get back to what you are doing once you feel better. 


A forcing society is a bad society, so as a forcing self is a bad self.


Never blame yourself.


Have the courage to understand yourself.


Let yourself grow.


Be the one you are ought to be.


There is nothing wrong upon getting up.


Taking a break is naturally fine.


Learn to understand.


Just be REAL.

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